“I’d be an escort if not for…”

Sometimes clients will tell me that if they were attractive women, they would be escorts. This comes with the assumption that if they were women, they’d be attracted to men and have a high sex drive. Usually, when I prod carefully at this idea, it becomes clear that they have this imagined idea of whatContinue reading ““I’d be an escort if not for…””

What terms should I use for sex workers?

Whichever terms they ask you to. In all seriousness, the words people prefer to be called when they belong to groups that face a lot of stigma will vary. Sex workers face a lot of hate and many words that were historically used for our profession have also become insults. If you’re wondering what termsContinue reading “What terms should I use for sex workers?”